INFLUENCING OTHERS
The three main
components of camp life that have a major effect on the camper’s growth and
improvement:
·
facilities or environment
·
camp program – what is
being done in camp
·
camp personnel – by far
the most important
IMPORTANT POINTS
MADE
·
Persuade people to act in
a certain way because they want to.
·
Instead of manipulation,
ask yourself how you can work together with the campers to achieve your mutual
needs and aspirations.
·
Help people to do those
things that will satisfy their needs or desires.
FIVE FUNDAMENTAL NEEDS
·
Affection
– the wish to be accepted and regarded affectionately by friends and
associates
·
Achievement
– the belief that we count for something in this world
·
Security
– freedom from fear, apprehension, danger, insecurity and pessimism
·
New Experiences
– opportunities in our lives for thrill, excitement and adventure
·
Recognition and
Approval – desire to be
accepted, noticed & gain attention, receive praise, achieve status, prestige
and distinction
DEVELOPMENTAL CHARACTERISTICS OF CAMPERS
Erik Erikson's Eight Stages of Development Chart
6 TO 8 Years Old –
individualistic period
·
thoughts are
self-centered
·
more interested in
pleasing adults than peers
·
easily motivated by
praise and signs of approval
·
extremely active, cannot
be restrained very long
·
impulsive, highly
unpredictable
·
like to be “first”
and “win”
·
have endless imaginations
·
physical coordination not
fully developed
·
endurance and fine motor
skills are poor
·
large muscle activities
like running & jumping are best
·
need to be protected
against overexcitement and fatigue
9 TO 11 Years Old
·
prize the approval of
their peers above parents/adults
·
hero worship i.e., famous
athlete, adult
·
seek intimate
relationship with one or two special
buddies
·
bundle of energy in
constant whirlwind of activity
·
good sense of humor
·
may be effervescent, talk
incessantly, exaggerate
·
want to know the
“why” of everything
·
like to read, be outdoors
·
improved
coordination/muscle control enabling them to acquire new skills
·
enjoy working in groups
·
throw themselves
wholeheartedly into chosen task but can lose interest and abandon project before
completion
·
counselor should avoid
using sarcasm or ridicule
·
still have strong
imaginations
12 TO 15 Years Old
– referred to as the gang age
·
self-interests are now
becoming subservient to
a deeper loyalty to the group/gang
·
want to act and dress
alike
·
very anxious for
independence
·
age of acute hero worship
and “crushes”
·
vacillate between
clowning , showing off and moodiness, introspection
·
rapid physical changes
bring profound unrest
·
self-consciousness is
often covered up by loud talk and laughter
·
these persons very much
need someone to confide in
16 TO 18 Years Old
·
older adolescents nearing
both physical and mental adulthood
·
rapid changes taking
place may embarrass or puzzle them
·
gregarious by nature
·
anxious to achieve a
place of status and acceptance with peers
·
maturing sexual
development and quest for information intensifies
·
seeks social contacts
with opposite sex
·
no longer children, but
not yet adults
·
period of idealism and
wanting to “save the world”
·
craves adventure and
challenging skills
·
CIT program very
effective
BASIC EMOTIONS
·
Love
·
Fear
·
Worry
·
Inferiority feelings
·
Anger
·
Jealousy
THE
LAWS OF LEARNING
– HOW LEARNING TAKES PLACE
·
The
law of exercise – we learn
by practice, repetition produces habits
·
The
law of readiness – when
someone is ready to act, doing so is satisfying, not doing so is annoying
·
The
law of effect – people
repeat those things that they find satisfying and avoid those that are
dissatisfying
·
The
law of reinforcement – behaviors
that are positively reinforced or rewarded are more likely to recur
BEHAVIOR MANAGEMENT DEFINITIONS
Behavior
Modification -
the belief that various behaviors are learned, rather than inherent, and can be
altered or modified by additional learning
Behavior
– any observable and measurable act, response or movement by an individual
Positive
Reinforcement
– the presentation of a consequence that makes a behavior occur more often in
the future.
·
Primary reinforcers –
necessary to maintain bodily functions i. e., food, air, warmth, they are not
learned
·
Secondary reinforcers –
three sub-categories which are learned; social reinforcers, activity reinforcers, token reinforcers.
·
Additional remarks:
Any
type of behavior being reinforced will likely be repeated, reward only good
behavior. Appropriate behavior should be reinforced immediately or as soon as
possible. Initially, desired behavior should be reinforced each time it occurs,
then intermittently. Consider offering praise in private to avoid embarrassing the
recipient.
Extinction – When a behavior is no longer followed by
reinforcement, it gradually diminishes until it is eventually eliminated.
Punishment
– presenting a consequence that is considered undesirable to the camper for
demonstrating an inappropriate behavior in order to decrease the occurrence of
the behavior. This
should be used rarely and only after everything else has failed.
Time-out
– removing the camper from the specific environment when exhibiting
inappropriate behavior in order to decrease the future occurrence of that
behavior.
·
should not last longer
than 5 minutes at the most
·
the camper should have
the opportunity to return to the program as soon as possible and be accepted
with no grudges or hard feelings.
·
the time-out area should
be as non-stimulating and isolated as possible while still allowing for proper
supervision.
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